I wonder if the word “no” is a hard word for overweight people? I don’t like saying “no”, it’s hard to say “no”, I feel bad saying “no”. I guess the answer to my question is quite obvious – overweight people certainly don’t say “no” to themselves in one common way. Ha.
I said “no” today. I was supposed to go to a mom’s get together thingy. All the moms in the playgroup I’m a part of were getting together tonight, sans kids, and bringing a food dish – starter/main/desert – and do a recipe while also participating in good food and cheer.
No.
I can’t. I can’t go. I know, I know – I COULD go in theory. I could go and just drink tons of water and a salad beforehand. I could take teeny tiny peices. I even considered going and NOT taking a dish myself because then I’d feel bad and not eat anyone else’s food. But I decided to put myself first and say No because I don’t want the challenge. I’m not strong enough for it right now. I feel bad like I’m letting others down. People have been wanting to hang out – maybe I’m the group entertainment, I dunno. But court jester or not, I’m taking THIS seriously…
I said no. And it was the right answer, I’m sure.
Tags: weight, weight loss
It’s ok. I’m sure she understands
Sometimes the easiest way to resist temptation is to avoid it all together.
It’s actually like 20 women, lol, but yeah – they get it or they don’t. I actually got an email from another one of the moms, and she wasn’t going for much of the same reason. I told her we could have gone and suffered together lol, at least we wouldn’t be alone. BUt yeah, it was good I didn’t go – I’m feeling good